boost: avoid zstd opportunistic linkage

[scpeters]

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This is an alternative to #39112 that fixes #39111 that tries to avoid opportunistic linkage rather than adding a new dependency to boost. I'm not sure if more things downstream will need revision bumps as well.

cc @colindean

[scpeters]

build parameter found from the following Jamfile:

• https://github.com/boostorg/iostreams/blob/703e9a077b899417ead9fb6c35db8f03b41247b6/build/Jamfile.v2#L28-L32

[scpeters]

cucumber-cpp also failed on 10.13 in the boost 1.69 pr: #35030 (comment)