Fix BigQuery configuration with parent-project-id

[pajaks]

Description

If bigquery.parent-project-id was specified in configuration it was set as projectId in BigQueryOptions.
For queries without TableId or DatasetId specified BigQueryOptions was used resulting in using wrong projectId.

This problem is visible when using PTF with parent-proejct-id set, resulting in permission problem like:

Caused by: com.google.api.client.googleapis.json.GoogleJsonResponseException: 403 Forbidden
POST https://bigquery.googleapis.com/bigquery/v2/projects/parent-project-id/jobs?prettyPrint=false
{
  "code": 403,
  "errors": [
    {
      "domain": "global",
      "message": "Access Denied: Table parent-project-id:tpch.nation: User does not have permission to query table parent-project-id:tpch.nation, or perhaps it does not exist.",
      "reason": "accessDenied"
    }
  ],
  "message": "Access Denied: Table parent-project-id:tpch.nation: User does not have permission to query table parent-project-id:tpch.nation, or perhaps it does not exist.",
  "status": "PERMISSION_DENIED"
}

Billing project id should be set using `setQuotaProjectId' according to https://cloud.google.com/java/docs/reference/google-cloud-core/latest/com.google.cloud.ServiceOptions#com_google_cloud_ServiceOptions_getQuotaProjectId__

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# BigQuery
* Fix failures with PTF queries when parent-project-id is defined. ({issue}`23041`)

[findinpath]

# BigQuery
* Fix configruation with parent-project-id. ({issue}`23041`)

nit: typo in configruation

[ebyhr]

Please squash 4th and 3rd commits into one.

[ebyhr]

/test-with-secrets sha=56ec6f35fda5235416262aab2120a25bdaf304ca

[github-actions]

The CI workflow run with tests that require additional secrets finished as failure: https://github.com/trinodb/trino/actions/runs/10567518374

[pajaks]

Big Query tests with secretes passed in mirror PR #23141
Other tests failures not related to changes

[hashhar]

It would be very helpful if we can have a short comment somewhere explaining the differences between project id, parent project id and how those are related to the quota/billing project.

Code itself seems fine but the semantics are unclear to me.

[pajaks]

It would be very helpful if we can have a short comment somewhere explaining the differences between project id, parent project id and how those are related to the quota/billing project.

Quota project id is different name for parent project id, both indicates project used for quota and billing purposes.
Added comment in code.

[ebyhr]

Fix configuration with parent-project-id

@pajaks Thanks for writing the release note entry. I think users can't understand what was the issue from this sentence. Could you update it? We usually use "Fix failure when ..." for bug fix entries.