lightning: added retry times and two new retry reasons(#60839)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #60839

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #60077

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
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  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[Benjamin2037]

LGTM

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Timeline:

• 2025-06-30 12:49:07.444086858 +0000 UTC m=+1312800.167265862: ☑️ agreed by GMHDBJD.
• 2025-07-01 01:13:00.383886478 +0000 UTC m=+1357433.107065517: ☑️ agreed by Benjamin2037.

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