Option to autoshutdown after killing last buffer (joaotavora#305)

This should close issue joaotavora#217, also cf. joaotavora#270.

* eglot.el: New defcustom `eglot-autoshutdown' (default t).
(eglot--managed-mode): Signal didClose before possibly triggering
autoshutdown.
(eglot--managed-mode-onoff): Shutdown if so configured and no managed
buffers left.

eglot.el

@@ -170,6 +170,11 @@ as 0, i.e. don't block at all."
   :type '(choice (boolean :tag "Whether to inhibit autoreconnection")
                  (integer :tag "Number of seconds")))
 
+(defcustom eglot-autoshutdown t
+  "If t, shut down a language server automatically after killing
+the last buffer it has managed."
+  :type 'boolean)
+
 (defcustom eglot-events-buffer-size 2000000
   "Control the size of the Eglot events buffer.
 If a number, don't let the buffer grow larger than that many
@@ -1172,7 +1177,7 @@ and just return it.  PROMPT shouldn't end with a question mark."
    (eglot--managed-mode
     (add-hook 'after-change-functions 'eglot--after-change nil t)
     (add-hook 'before-change-functions 'eglot--before-change nil t)
-    (add-hook 'kill-buffer-hook 'eglot--signal-textDocument/didClose nil t)
+    (add-hook 'kill-buffer-hook 'eglot--signal-textDocument/didClose -1 t) ;before possible server autoshutdown
     (add-hook 'kill-buffer-hook 'eglot--managed-mode-onoff nil t)
     (add-hook 'before-revert-hook 'eglot--signal-textDocument/didClose nil t)
     (add-hook 'before-save-hook 'eglot--signal-textDocument/willSave nil t)
@@ -1223,7 +1228,11 @@ Reset in `eglot--managed-mode-onoff'.")
              (setq eglot--cached-current-server nil)
              (when server
                (setf (eglot--managed-buffers server)
-                     (delq buf (eglot--managed-buffers server)))))))))
+                     (delq buf (eglot--managed-buffers server)))
+               (when (and eglot-autoshutdown
+                          (not (eglot--shutdown-requested server))
+                          (not (eglot--managed-buffers server)))
+                 (eglot-shutdown server))))))))
 
 (defun eglot--current-server ()
   "Find the current logical EGLOT server."