Build Windows Release with CMake (part1)

[alef]

Summary

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Purpose of change

Try to align CMake build to match the release.

Describe the solution

• Deal with some package name differing between VCPKG and other distributions
• Use the proper way for supporting ccache
• Add missing files to the relase

Describe alternatives you've considered

Testing

1. Drafting this PR
2. Watch CI build
3. Undraft if no side-effects

Additional context

Part of discarded #60159

[BrettDong]

I tried your branch and I can successfully build cataclysm-tiles.exe on Windows with MSVC and CMake. However I found I need to delete findSDL2_ttf.cmake in CMakeModules directory, otherwise there will be a CMake configuration error saying unable to find either target SDL2_ttf::SDL2_ttf or SDL2_ttf::SDL2_ttf-static. I guess the findSDL2_ttf.cmake in CMakeModules is too old that it does not provide a modern CMake style target for the project to consume?