[chore] update vite and esbuild

[dominikg]

update to vite 2.8, esbuild 0.14 and ts 4.5

a test in sveltekit package fails due to the new .m.ts files created from .mjs sources.
docs: https://discord.com/channels/457912077277855764/571775594002513921/940924260833185794

cc @dummdidumm

related: #3064 should we add that flag here or afterwards in a separate PR?

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[dominikg]

maybe related to the packaging .mts fail: #3783

[dominikg]

keep typescript at 4.4 for now as suggested by @benmccann , 4.5 update can be done separately later, see problems above

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