Construct TF listeners passing nodes, spinning on separate thread (backport #5406)

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See #1182 - this is a re-assessment after 6 years.
Advantages: easier auditing of TF2 subscriptions across the ROS graph. The nav2 node(s) name(s) will appear for example when issuing ros2 topic info -v /tf.

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Basic Info

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Ticket(s) this addresses	#1182
Primary OS tested on	Ubuntu
Robotic platform tested on	proprietary simulation & HW
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Description of contribution in a few bullet points

Construct tf2_ros::TransformListener instances passing a node pointer, so that no additional nodes with randomized names are spawned on the ROS graph (less pollution, better auditing), but enabling the spin_thread flag, so that we ensure TF subscriptions are not interleaved with other nav2-related callbacks in the same executor.

For Maintainers:

• Check that any new parameters added are updated in docs.nav2.org
• Check that any significant change is added to the migration guide
• Check that any new features OR changes to existing behaviors are reflected in the tuning guide
• Check that any new functions have Doxygen added
• Check that any new features have test coverage
• Check that any new plugins is added to the plugins page
• If BT Node, Additionally: add to BT's XML index of nodes for groot, BT package's readme table, and BT library lists
• Should this be backported to current distributions? If so, tag with backport-*.

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #5406 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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@mergify[bot], all pull requests must be targeted towards the main development branch.
Once merged into main, it is possible to backport to @kilted, but it must be in main
to have these changes reflected into new distributions.