[native pos] Wait for process termination

[arhimondr]

Description

When process is terminated with core wait for termination

Motivation and Context

When not waiting for termination Spark can schedule a next task while the native process is in a middle of writing coredump

Impact

Queries can potentially take longer to fail

Test Plan

CI

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Release Notes

== RELEASE NOTES ==

Prestissimo on Spark

Deprecate `native-trigger-coredump-when-unresponsive-enabled` config property in favor of `native-terminate-with-core-when-unresponsive-enabled`

[shrinidhijoshi]

@arhimondr LGTM. Could you please update the release notes with property changes ?