[8.18](backport #43280) bk(packaging): use arm64 for darwin/arm64

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Proposed commit message

Golang Crossbuild:

• for arm64 let's use the aarch64 host
• for amd64 let's use the amd64 host

We changed partially for aarch64, but darwin/arm64 was not changed.

Uses elastic/golang-crossbuild#533 and elastic/golang-crossbuild#559 (1.24.0)

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• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• I have made corresponding change to the default configuration files
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• I have added an entry in CHANGELOG.next.asciidoc or CHANGELOG-developer.next.asciidoc.

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How to test this PR locally

In the CI:

• https://buildkite.com/elastic/beats-packaging-pipeline/builds/2867

See #43145

Related issues

Requires elastic/golang-crossbuild#533

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[v1v]

it uses 1.23.x instead of 1.24.x