node@14: use brewed/system libraries

[Bo98]

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This backports the changes made in our Node 16 formula.

I'm hoping this also fixes the ZlibError issue in macOS 11.6 - we'll see.

[carlocab]

We should check linkage with libuv when the bottles are built. Node had a bug where it didn't link properly with libuv (#76893). Not sure if the fix was ever backported. I don't think I tracked down the exact fix, but I think it happened between 16.4 and 16.5.

[Bo98]

Big Sur arm64 and x86_64 bottles:

bottles/node@14/14.18.0_1/bin/node:
	/usr/lib/libz.1.dylib (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 1.2.11)
	@@HOMEBREW_PREFIX@@/opt/libuv/lib/libuv.1.dylib (compatibility version 2.0.0, current version 2.0.0)

I think that means it's ok?

[carlocab]

Yea, that's fine.

[BrewTestBot]

@Bo98 has triggered a merge.