Chore: Add match_vector_pair macro

[connortsui20]

Note that the formatting is ugly because of this: rust-lang/rust#52234 (comment)

Several of the match statements keep getting out of sync because we have to remember to add variants to match statements everywhere.

Also fixes some of the macro imports since we're macro_exporting everything again.

Also fixes an issue with the struct API (accidentally didn't return an Arc)

(Note that this is quite important for the implementation of FixedSizeList and ListView vectors) otherwise there is way too much boilerplate

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[connortsui20]

Do you think that the syntax that I chose here makes sense? I could also add a match literal at the beginning front to make it super obvious