[Bugfix] Align MLA indexer block table with MTP speculative decode

[zhangxjohn]

Fix GLM-5.1 MTP=4 crashes under concurrent load:

• Pad expanded_block_table_buffer columns like MultiGroupBlockTable to avoid expand size mismatch (e.g. 1669 vs 1670) when flattening MTP decode tokens into the indexer path.
• Drop padded MTP decode slots so seq_lens and block_table row counts stay consistent in the flatten path.
• Normalize DeepGEMM context_lens to 2D contiguous tensors and flatten 2D seq_lens for persistent_topk in sparse_attn_indexer.

Fixes #41094 (DeepGEMM contiguous assertion) together with the block table alignment that caused EngineDeadError on high-concurrency MTP.

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[MatthewBonanni]

Thanks for the contribution! Partially superseded by #50302, please update the PR