force quit when get pynvml version issue

[lucypham951]

This PR fixes an issue where CUDA detection fails silently when an outdated
version of pynvml (<12.0) is installed. The previous implementation
swallowed the RuntimeError, leading to is_cuda=False even when CUDA
devices were available, leading to UnspecifiedPlatform --> NotImplementedError

• To avoid overwriting higher-level's RuntimeError catches, decided to forcefully
  terminate when found version error.

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[houseroad]

The issue should be solved by #12963. cc: @youkaichao

[DarkLight1337]

Closing as superseded by #12963