Use replica queries when available

[dbussink]

This switches things over to use the replica syntax when available instead of the deprecated style.

Related Issue(s)

Part of #9515. The new naming is not available for all of MySQL 8.0, so we have to carry the legacy still but we can use the new syntax moving forward where possible.

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[dbussink]

Not all end-to-end tests here have been updated yet either, that's still pending to change to use the new syntax when available as well.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 53.36427% with 201 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 68.39%. Comparing base (cf3acaa) to head (fbb3c48).
Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

Files	Patch %	Lines
go/mysql/flavor_mysql.go	50.35%	70 Missing ⚠️
go/vt/vttablet/tabletmanager/rpc_replication.go	9.37%	29 Missing ⚠️
go/vt/mysqlctl/replication.go	34.37%	21 Missing ⚠️
go/vt/mysqlctl/fakemysqldaemon.go	46.66%	16 Missing ⚠️
go/vt/vttablet/tabletmanager/restore.go	0.00%	16 Missing ⚠️
go/cmd/vtbackup/cli/vtbackup.go	0.00%	7 Missing ⚠️
go/mysql/flavor_filepos.go	0.00%	7 Missing ⚠️
go/vt/vtgate/executor.go	65.00%	7 Missing ⚠️
go/mysql/flavor_mariadb.go	76.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
go/mysql/replication.go	72.72%	6 Missing ⚠️
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[shlomi-noach]

See inline comments

[mattlord]

LGTM! I only had minor nits/comments/suggestions.

Thank you for doing this!