Improve memory for HashBuilderOperator unspill

[JunhyungSong]

Comparable changes extracted from prestodb/presto#16212

Before the fix, all unspilled data are read into memory and hold on until HashBuilderOperator is destructed.
Nullify unspilled pages allows memory to be freed.

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