Allow fetching relation names with their types (v2)

[findepi]

This reduces number of Glue calls when reading from
information_schema.tables or system.jdbc.tables.

Like #19832 but avoids contentious rename (#19832 (comment)).

[findepi]

CI #19747

[findepi]

CI #16315

[findepi]

@losipiuk thank you for your review!

I noticed there was a would-be regression for Iceberg, so I added a preparatory commit (currently first) with a test case, that later shows a regression and later improvement. @losipiuk please take another look

Now this is an improvement for information_schema.tables and system.jdbc.tables for Iceberg with Glue as well.
This is however a regression for Iceberg and Hive with HMS (instead of 2 listing calls we do 3).
I think the Glue improvement is more important from performance sensitivity perspective, and I think we should go ahead with the change.

[losipiuk]

I think the Glue improvement is more important from performance sensitivity perspective, and I think we should go ahead with the change.

We chatted offline - and even though this is not an universal truth - it makes sense. The important point in the discussion was that HMS protocol is not suited for large deployments anyway; each call to HMS is bounded by request-timeout anyway so extra time is bounded.

[findepi]

CI #19888

[findepi]

CI #19242

[mosabua]

Do we need a release note for this .. something about performance improvement for Glue access in Iceberg, Delta Lake and Hive/

[mosabua]

I am going to assume we dont need release notes entry.