Upgrade to Infinispan 10.1.0.Final

[wilkinsona]

See #19301 for some background. Let's consider this for 2.3.x.

[snicoll]

It would be nice to upgrade to infinispan-bom considering the large amount of artifacts but the current bom has dependency management for non-Infinispan artifacts. I've created ISPN-11115

[scottfrederick]

Closed in favor of #19790