suite-sparse: fix missing rpaths for dependencies

[haampie]

extracted from #47365

libcholmod.so was missing rpaths to blas.

[wdconinc]

Interesting, this seems not to have solved that issue with suite-sparse and cholmod using openblas for me. https://eicweb.phy.anl.gov/containers/eic_container/-/jobs/4170894/raw, with

#28 1292.1 �[1;34m==>�[0m suite-sparse: Executing phase: 'install'
#28 1292.1 /opt/spack/lib/spack/spack/schema/__init__.py:64: UserWarning: The config:install_missing_compilers option has been deprecated in Spack v0.23, and is currently ignored. It will be removed from config in Spack v0.25.
#28 1292.1   warnings.warn(msg)
#28 1292.1 �[1;31m==>�[0m Error: ProcessError: Command exited with status 2:
#28 1292.1     'make' '-j32' '-C' 'CHOLMOD' 'library' 'AUTOCC=no' 'CUDA=no' 'CUDA_PATH=' 'CFOPENMP=' 'CFLAGS=-O3 -fPIC' 'FFLAGS=-fPIC' 'F77FLAGS=-fPIC' 'MY_METIS_LIB=-L/opt/software/linux-debian12-x86_64_v2/gcc-12.2.0/metis-5.1.0-cxhokjlztm63ybxicektdegfrrj3pube/lib -lmetis' 'MY_METIS_INC=/opt/software/linux-debian12-x86_64_v2/gcc-12.2.0/metis-5.1.0-cxhokjlztm63ybxicektdegfrrj3pube/include' 'BLAS= ' 'LAPACK= ' 'JOBS=32' 'UMFPACK_CONFIG=-DLONGBLAS="long long"' 'CFLAGS+=-Dcgemm_=cgemm_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dcgemv_=cgemv_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dcherk_=cherk_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dcpotrf_=cpotrf_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dctrsm_=ctrsm_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dctrsv_=ctrsv_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddgemm_=dgemm_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddgemv_=dgemv_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddger_=dger_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddlarf_=dlarf_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddlarfb_=dlarfb_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddlarfg_=dlarfg_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddlarft_=dlarft_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddnrm2_=dnrm2_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddpotrf_=dpotrf_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddscal_=dscal_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddsyrk_=dsyrk_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddtrsm_=dtrsm_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddtrsv_=dtrsv_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Ddznrm2_=dznrm2_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dsgemm_=sgemm_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dsgemv_=sgemv_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dspotrf_=spotrf_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dssyrk_=ssyrk_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dstrsm_=strsm_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dstrsv_=strsv_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzgemm_=zgemm_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzgemv_=zgemv_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzgeru_=zgeru_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzherk_=zherk_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzlarf_=zlarf_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzlarfb_=zlarfb_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzlarfg_=zlarfg_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzlarft_=zlarft_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzpotrf_=zpotrf_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dzscal_=zscal_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dztrsm_=ztrsm_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-Dztrsv_=ztrsv_64_' 'CFLAGS+=-fno-common -fexceptions' 'CMAKE_OPTIONS=-DCMAKE_INSTALL_RPATH_USE_LINK_PATH=ON -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX=/opt/software/linux-debian12-x86_64_v2/gcc-12.2.0/suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo -DCMAKE_LIBRARY_PATH=/opt/software/linux-debian12-x86_64_v2/gcc-12.2.0/suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo/lib -DBLAS_ROOT=/opt/software/linux-debian12-x86_64_v2/gcc-12.2.0/openblas-0.3.28-qlho6mda6uskknj6npvejyfp2gnkdzjv -DLAPACK_ROOT=/opt/software/linux-debian12-x86_64_v2/gcc-12.2.0/openblas-0.3.28-qlho6mda6uskknj6npvejyfp2gnkdzjv -DBLAS_LIBRARIES="" -DLAPACK_LIBRARIES="" -DCMAKE_VERBOSE_MAKEFILE=ON -DSUITESPARSE_USE_OPENMP=OFF -DSUITESPARSE_USE_CUDA=OFF' 'INSTALL=/opt/software/linux-debian12-x86_64_v2/gcc-12.2.0/suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo'
#28 1292.1 
#28 1292.1 110 errors found in build log:
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#28 1292.1      2067    [ 99%] Linking C executable cholmod_dl_demo
#28 1292.1      2068    /opt/software/linux-debian12-x86_64_v2/gcc-12.2.0/cmake-3.27.9-buf
#28 1292.1              yn4tx2v4ylr4dnfdegtzlyxgwzwug/bin/cmake -E cmake_link_script CMake
#28 1292.1              Files/cholmod_dl_demo.dir/link.txt --verbose=1
#28 1292.1      2069    /opt/spack/lib/spack/env/gcc/gcc -O3 -fPIC -Dcgemm_=cgemm_64_ -Dcg
#28 1292.1              emv_=cgemv_64_ -Dcherk_=cherk_64_ -Dcpotrf_=cpotrf_64_ -Dctrsm_=ct
#28 1292.1              rsm_64_ -Dctrsv_=ctrsv_64_ -Ddgemm_=dgemm_64_ -Ddgemv_=dgemv_64_ -
#28 1292.1              Ddger_=dger_64_ -Ddlarf_=dlarf_64_ -Ddlarfb_=dlarfb_64_ -Ddlarfg_=
#28 1292.1              dlarfg_64_ -Ddlarft_=dlarft_64_ -Ddnrm2_=dnrm2_64_ -Ddpotrf_=dpotr
#28 1292.1              f_64_ -Ddscal_=dscal_64_ -Ddsyrk_=dsyrk_64_ -Ddtrsm_=dtrsm_64_ -Dd
#28 1292.1              trsv_=dtrsv_64_ -Ddznrm2_=dznrm2_64_ -Dsgemm_=sgemm_64_ -Dsgemv_=s
#28 1292.1              gemv_64_ -Dspotrf_=spotrf_64_ -Dssyrk_=ssyrk_64_ -Dstrsm_=strsm_64
#28 1292.1              _ -Dstrsv_=strsv_64_ -Dzgemm_=zgemm_64_ -Dzgemv_=zgemv_64_ -Dzgeru
#28 1292.1              _=zgeru_64_ -Dzherk_=zherk_64_ -Dzlarf_=zlarf_64_ -Dzlarfb_=zlarfb
#28 1292.1              _64_ -Dzlarfg_=zlarfg_64_ -Dzlarft_=zlarft_64_ -Dzpotrf_=zpotrf_64
#28 1292.1              _ -Dzscal_=zscal_64_ -Dztrsm_=ztrsm_64_ -Dztrsv_=ztrsv_64_ -fno-co
#28 1292.1              mmon -fexceptions -O3 -DNDEBUG CMakeFiles/cholmod_dl_demo.dir/Demo
#28 1292.1              /cholmod_dl_demo.c.o -o cholmod_dl_demo  -Wl,-rpath,/tmp/root/spac
#28 1292.1              k-stage/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe
#28 1292.1              34wgo/spack-src/CHOLMOD/build:/tmp/root/spack-stage/spack-stage-su
#28 1292.1              ite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo/spack-src/AMD/bu
#28 1292.1              ild:/tmp/root/spack-stage/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlh
#28 1292.1              o3aamdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo/spack-src/COLAMD/build:/tmp/root/spack-sta
#28 1292.1              ge/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo
#28 1292.1              /spack-src/CAMD/build:/tmp/root/spack-stage/spack-stage-suite-spar
#28 1292.1              se-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo/spack-src/CCOLAMD/build:
#28 1292.1              /tmp/root/spack-stage/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aa
#28 1292.1              mdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo/spack-src/SuiteSparse_config/build libcholmod.
#28 1292.1              so.5.2.1 /tmp/root/spack-stage/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2v
#28 1292.1              x5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe34wgo/spack-src/AMD/build/libamd.so.3.3.2 /
#28 1292.1              tmp/root/spack-stage/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aam
#28 1292.1              dwx7hujaxejhe34wgo/spack-src/COLAMD/build/libcolamd.so.3.3.3 /tmp/
#28 1292.1              root/spack-stage/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7
#28 1292.1              hujaxejhe34wgo/spack-src/CAMD/build/libcamd.so.3.3.2 /tmp/root/spa
#28 1292.1              ck-stage/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejh
#28 1292.1              e34wgo/spack-src/CCOLAMD/build/libccolamd.so.3.3.3 /tmp/root/spack
#28 1292.1              -stage/spack-stage-suite-sparse-7.7.0-tt2vx5jlho3aamdwx7hujaxejhe3
#28 1292.1              4wgo/spack-src/SuiteSparse_config/build/libsuitesparseconfig.so.7.
#28 1292.1              7.0
#28 1292.1   �[0;91m>> 2070    /usr/bin/ld: libcholmod.so.5.2.1: undefined reference to `cherk_64
#28 1292.1              _'�[0m
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