generalize to allow downstream apps to set masked subset

[kecnry]

Description

This pull request reintroduces the flexibility needed for downstream apps (including lcviz - see updates in spacetelescope/lcviz#20) to use get_data with non-spatial/spectral masking subsets as an extension of #2199.

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[javerbukh]

LGTM!

[bmorris3]

Great, thanks!