`slack-19.0`: backport `txthrottler` fixes from v21#526

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[release-19.0] Support passing filters to `discovery.NewHealthCheck(...)` (#16170) (#16871)
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[release-19.0] Fix race in `replicationLagModule` of `go/vt/throttle` (#16078) (#16899)

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restore filter tags that `git cherry-pick` reverted
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