also add reportOptions to inAnyOrder.only

[robstoll]

Platform (all, jvm, js): all
Extension (none, kotlin 1.3): none

Code related feature

expect(listOf(1, 2, 2, 4)).toContain.inAnyOrder.only.values(1, 2, 3, 4)

Results per default in:

I expected subject: [1, 2, 2, 4]        (java.util.Arrays.ArrayList <1234789>)
◆ to contain, in any order: 
  ⚬ an element which needs: 
      » to be less than: 3        (kotlin.Int <1234789>)
    ⚬ ▶ number of such elements: 3
        ◾ is at most: 2

I suggest we apply the same strategy regarding showing all successful or not like we use for inOrder.only, i.e. show only failing if there are more than 10 expected elements and add option to change the options

[robstoll]

some specs are missing, moving them to own issues