Make it possible to shrink only a subset of quorum queues by providing a naming pattern (backport #15021)

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Proposed Changes

Hello Rabbit Team! 👋

These changes extend the QQ force shrink operations to use regx for queue names on shrink (globally or per vhost). There cases where in the event of Quorum Queues being in a bad state (e.g no leader or bad multiple partitions), only a set need be shrunk on emergency disaster recovery operations, to prevent and rescue total message loss before queue is either re-grown or permanently deleted and re-declared. The extension (to the existing operations) allows the following:

ctl eval 'rabbit_quorum_queue:force_all_queues_shrink_member_to_current_member( QQMatchSpec ).'

ctl eval 'rabbit_quorum_queue:force_vhost_queues_shrink_member_to_current_member( VHost, QQMatchSpec ).'

Default will match all queues as existing behaviour. This change will help rescue only a specific set of queues without necessarily shrinking everything (which can take a longtime on heavily loaded brokers). We are really keen on having this available for recovery procedures to help prevent message loss. Please take a look, thanks!

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