Update and rename nightly-build.yml to build.yml

[msaroufim]

Let me merge this PR

So this github action makes it possible to push out our latest release binaries on pypi while also still doing our nightly releases by navigating to this tab https://github.com/pytorch/ao/actions/workflows/nightly-build.yml

The key changes are

1. An optional ref argument to the github action where we'd pass in a branch a branch name e.g v0.02
2. A flag for either release or nightly. Nightly is the default
3. Install our dependencies like requirements.txt otherwise CI was breaking with missing torch dependency
4. Because we missed this error for 3 weeks adding a louder notification on issues if we miss this

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✅ You can merge normally! (6 Unrelated Failures)

As of commit 2b218d4 with merge base 7734f79 ():

FLAKY - The following jobs failed but were likely due to flakiness present on trunk:

• Run Regression Tests / test (CPU 2.2.2, linux.4xlarge, torch==2.2.2 --index-url https://download.pytorch.org/whl/cpu, cpu) / linux-job (gh) (matched linux rule in flaky-rules.json)
  The process '/usr/bin/git' failed with exit code 128
• Run Regression Tests / test (CPU 2.3, linux.4xlarge, torch==2.3.0 --index-url https://download.pytorch.org/whl/cpu, cpu) / linux-job (gh) (matched linux rule in flaky-rules.json)
  The process '/usr/bin/git' failed with exit code 128
• Run Regression Tests / test (CPU Nightly, linux.4xlarge, --pre torch --index-url https://download.pytorch.org/whl/nightl... / linux-job (gh) (matched linux rule in flaky-rules.json)
  The process '/usr/bin/git' failed with exit code 128
• Run Regression Tests / test (CUDA 2.2.2, linux.g5.12xlarge.nvidia.gpu, torch==2.2.2, cuda, 12.1) / linux-job (gh) (matched linux rule in flaky-rules.json)
  The process '/usr/bin/git' failed with exit code 128
• Run Regression Tests / test (CUDA 2.3, linux.g5.12xlarge.nvidia.gpu, torch==2.3.0, cuda, 12.1) / linux-job (gh) (matched linux rule in flaky-rules.json)
  The process '/usr/bin/git' failed with exit code 128

BROKEN TRUNK - The following job failed but were present on the merge base:

👉 Rebase onto the `viable/strict` branch to avoid these failures

• Run Regression Tests / test (CUDA Nightly, linux.g5.12xlarge.nvidia.gpu, --pre torch --index-url https://download.pytorc... / linux-job (gh) (trunk failure)

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