Merge #13237

13237: Update @grpc/grpc-js r=Frassle a=Frassle

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# Description

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We've seen some issues from customers that might be due to grpc/grpc-node#1158 which looks like it should be better after 1.7.2. 

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Co-authored-by: Fraser Waters <[email protected]>

changelog/pending/20230622--sdk-nodejs--update-atgrpc-grpc-js-to-1-8-16.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,4 @@
+changes:
+- type: chore
+  scope: sdk/nodejs
+  description: Update @grpc/grpc-js to 1.8.16.

sdk/nodejs/package.json

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@
         "directory": "sdk/nodejs"
     },
     "dependencies": {
-        "@grpc/grpc-js": "^1.3.8",
+        "@grpc/grpc-js": "^1.8.16",
         "@logdna/tail-file": "^2.0.6",
         "@opentelemetry/api": "^1.2.0",
         "@opentelemetry/exporter-zipkin": "^1.6.0",

sdk/nodejs/yarn.lock

@@ -213,10 +213,10 @@
     minimatch "^3.0.4"
     strip-json-comments "^3.1.1"
 
-"@grpc/grpc-js@^1.3.8":
-  version "1.8.11"
-  resolved "https://registry.yarnpkg.com/@grpc/grpc-js/-/grpc-js-1.8.11.tgz#f113f7bc197e8d6f3d3f0c6b02925c7a5da1aec4"
-  integrity sha512-f/xC+6Z2QKsRJ+VSSFlt4hA5KSRm+PKvMWV8kMPkMgGlFidR6PeIkXrOasIY2roe+WROM6GFQLlgDKfeEZo2YQ==
+"@grpc/grpc-js@^1.8.16":
+  version "1.8.16"
+  resolved "https://registry.yarnpkg.com/@grpc/grpc-js/-/grpc-js-1.8.16.tgz#9a1b93703c065fde20b90d854126aadb89f4f0bd"
+  integrity sha512-Nvlq4V7XQmdRVDGgecR8ZPPCeY+uH1LhzbC+QxklwAahpQlq8YLsiOQgfkub9FiakRiohaDy361xqlTLkq9EHw==
   dependencies:
     "@grpc/proto-loader" "^0.7.0"
     "@types/node" ">=12.12.47"