Various CI and doc refactors

[cobaltt7]

Description

Various unrelated refactors, most of which are too small for their own PR

Since most changes are largely unrelated, it may be easier to review this PR commit-by-commit, so I made sure to keep each change contained to a single commit and I've listed them here:

• 0457459: Rename workflows, jobs, and steps for consistency, clarity, and correctness
• 465f2b5: Set up dependency groups in pyproject.toml
  • See Pin Hatch to hopefully fix Docker builds #4878 (comment)
  • Use them most places (some places are migrated in future commits, they're used everywhere by the end of the PR)
  • Also bumps some action runner versions
  • And updates dependabot/pre-commit config to check for more updates
  • Remove second unnecessary mypy config now that the default minimum version is 3.10
• 2399c5d: Add and improve paths matchers on action triggers
• 00fb065: Split up build workflow jobs into build and publish
  • Fixes Split the Build and Publish workflow into more jobs #4926
  • Also removed the spurious if checks (see Upgrade PyPI upload workflow to use Trusted Publishing (#4589) #4611 (comment))
  • Prevents the workflow from trying to update the stable branch on prereleases, which doesn't currently work anyway and just causes the workflow to "fail"
• 5ff2a0f: Correct wrong/outdated information in release & build docs
• 5b1b02e: Don't wrap prose in issue/PR templates
  • GitHub issue comments preserve all newlines
  • GitHub releases do as well, so this should maybe be expanded to include CHANGES.md too, but that would be a more intrusive change
• d2e7a67: Manually reformat places that don't get autoformatted
  • Most notably:
    • vim files (and Python heredocs)
    • Sphinx attestations
    • pyproject.toml
  • I used 4-space indents to be consistent with Black
  • Files formatted with Prettier are currently defaulting to 2-space indents, but I left that alone for now
• 01a1e4c: Modfiy codeblock languages
  • Standardize /py(thon)?(3)?/ to python
  • Only use console when the ps prompt is included, and don't put comments where output should be
  • Add a few other missing languages
• d351d1b: Minor misc docs rewordings (and add myself to AUTHORS.md)
• 5977512: Run docker builds in parallel using native builders
  • Cuts build times from ~45 to ~6 minutes
• 3d7b406: Refactor diff-shades workflow
  • It still uses the workflow_run trigger unfortunately (see Lingering CI/CD pins, add cooldowns, remove template injections #4906); there's no way to comment on the PR without it
    • Having said that, I think the usage of this is "safe"
    • To my understanding, the worst someone could do is modify the comment to whatever they wanted
    • I don't think it'd be worth it to remove the comment functionality just to satisfy the linter
    • Also, a maintainer has to manually approve CI on PRs unless they've contributed before, so it'd be a fair amount of effort for someone to troll
  • Reword PR comment to be clearer and more detailed (example: cobaltt7-patch-1 cobaltt7/black#7 (comment))
  • Work around Prettier format issues
  • Update docs appropriately

all CI changes were tested as best I could

Checklist - did you ...

• [-] Implement any code style changes under the --preview style, following the stability policy?
• [-] Add an entry in CHANGES.md if necessary?
• [-] Add / update tests if necessary?
• [y] Add new / update outdated documentation?

[cobaltt7]

All issues have been fixed, ready for review!

[hauntsaninja]

Thank you! Looks good from a skim! (And happy new year! :-) )