Fix restart of controllers that use fabric table storage.

[bzbarsky-apple]

Right now controller shutdown clears out the fabric table entry in memory, but not in storage. After that memory and storage are out of sync, and various things that rely on the storage (like starting a new controller for the same fabric without providing all the certs and whatnot) end up failing.

The fix is to make the Forget() call in controller shutdown configurable, so that consumers who rely on the storage can skip it.

[github-actions]

PR #26004: Size comparison from efaf3aa to 9c2aa4e

Full report (1 build for cc32xx)

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[github-actions]

PR #26004: Size comparison from b8201bb to 57bb73f

Full report (1 build for cc32xx)

platform	target	config	section	b8201bb	57bb73f	change	% change
cc32xx	lock	CC3235SF_LAUNCHXL		0	0	0	0.0
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			(read/write)	203848	203848	0	0.0
			.ARM.attributes	44	44	0	0.0
			.ARM.exidx	8	8	0	0.0
			.bss	197248	197248	0	0.0
			.comment	194	194	0	0.0
			.data	1480	1480	0	0.0
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			.text	536336	536336	0	0.0