Revert "fix: remove actor system for transactions"

[SevInf]

It itdroduced a couple of regressions into client pipeline and currently blocking integration of subsequent commits.
Reverts #4940

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #4975 will not alter performance

_{Comparing revert-4940-feat/remove-actors-attempt-2 (0045c50) with main (8c1ddb7)}

Summary

✅ 11 untouched benchmarks

[github-actions]

WASM Query Engine file Size

Engine	This PR	Base branch	Diff
Postgres	2.061MiB	2.052MiB	9.341KiB
Postgres (gzip)	822.646KiB	817.785KiB	4.862KiB
Mysql	2.030MiB	2.020MiB	9.347KiB
Mysql (gzip)	809.626KiB	804.893KiB	4.734KiB
Sqlite	1.926MiB	1.917MiB	9.041KiB
Sqlite (gzip)	769.290KiB	764.429KiB	4.861KiB

[jkomyno]

Merging with two notes:

• D1 tests are failing because of prisma/prisma
• "Build Engines / Decide if a release of the engines artifacts is necessary" is failing in the "Debug Pull Request Event" for apparently no valid reason (see Slack). This isn't blocking though