chore(deps): Upgrade Arrow to 18.3.0

[lithin92]

Description

Upgrades Apache Arrow dependencies to 18.3.0.

Motivation and Context

Using a more recent version helps avoid potential vulnerabilities and ensures we aren't relying on outdated or unsupported code.

Impact

Inherited connectors must use protobuf-java 4.30.x to avoid potential gencode issues.

Test Plan

Tested after upgrade and was able to connect to Flight server and fetch schemas

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Release Notes

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== RELEASE NOTES ==

General Changes
* Upgrade Apache Arrow to 18.3.0 and protobuf-java to 4.30.2.

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[tdcmeehan]

Can you update ${dep.protobuf-java.version}?

[lithin92]

Can you update ${dep.protobuf-java.version}?

done @tdcmeehan

[BryanCutler]

LGTM