feat(language_server): switch tower-lsp to tower-lsp-server

[Boshen]

tower-lsp has been unmaintained for a longer time. tower-lsp-server is a community fork.

Haven't tested with vscode yet.

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[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Instrumentation Performance Report

Merging #10298 will degrade performances by 5.1%

_{Comparing 04-07-feat_language_server_switch_tower-lsp_to_tower-lsp-server_ (0370363) with main (2c66ac2)}

Summary

⚡ 1 improvements
❌ 1 regressions
✅ 34 untouched benchmarks

⚠️ Please fix the performance issues or acknowledge them on CodSpeed.

Benchmarks breakdown

	Benchmark	BASE	HEAD	Change
⚡	formatter[antd.js]	7.9 ms	7.6 ms	+3.67%
❌	formatter[typescript.js]	7.2 ms	7.6 ms	-5.1%

[Sysix]

Haven't tested with vscode yet.

Commands that shut down the server are failing now.
STRG + P and search for Oxc: Restart Oxc Server and Oxc: toggle enable

Anything else works 👍

2025-04-09 18:10:56.499 [info] [Trace - 6:10:56 PM] Sending request 'shutdown - (11)'.
2025-04-09 18:10:56.502 [info] 
thread 'main' panicked at crates/oxc_language_server/src/main.rs:503:43:
called `Option::unwrap()` on a `None` value
note: run with `RUST_BACKTRACE=1` environment variable to display a backtrace

[Sysix]

Merge activity

• Apr 9, 12:58 PM EDT: The merge label '0-merge' was detected. This PR will be added to the Graphite merge queue once it meets the requirements.
• Apr 9, 1:02 PM EDT: Sysix added this pull request to the Graphite merge queue.
• Apr 9, 1:09 PM EDT: Merged by the Graphite merge queue.