fix: use trylock with jitter sleep #2009

Job	Run time
Run OIDC conformity tests	11m 44s
Generate SDKs	3m 36s
Run HSM tests	6m 45s
Run tests and lints	18m 55s
Run end-to-end tests (memory)	4m 53s
Run end-to-end tests (memory, --jwt)	4m 56s
Run end-to-end tests (postgres)	4m 49s
Run end-to-end tests (postgres, --jwt)	4m 59s
Run end-to-end tests (mysql)	5m 0s
Run end-to-end tests (mysql, --jwt)	5m 9s
Run end-to-end tests (cockroach)	5m 18s
Run end-to-end tests (cockroach, --jwt)	5m 23s
Build CLI docs	1m 3s
Generate changelog	0s
Generate release	0s
Release SDKs	0s
Draft newsletter	0s
Render version schema	0s
Send newsletter	0s
Pending approval Slack notification	0s
	1h 22m 30s

Provide feedback