[Traces] Support named options in SqlClient instrumentation

[CodeBlanch]

Changes

• Applies the named options pattern from [Metrics] Clean up repo exporters to use new DI patterns #3648 to SqlClient tracer builder extension. Uses [DependencyInjection] Introduce new package and refactor SDK #3923 to do this without a reference to SDK.

TODOs

• Appropriate CHANGELOG.md updated for non-trivial changes
• Unit tests
• Changes in public API reviewed

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #3994 (de18f74) into main (723ad0b) will increase coverage by 0.01%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

Additional details and impacted files

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...ation.SqlClient/TracerProviderBuilderExtensions.cs	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)