[chore] add automation for codeowner tooling

[mowies]

This PR copies over automation from the collector-contrib repo and slightly adjusts it where needed.
The PR includes 3 new workflows:

• add-labels: enables users to add labels to issues by commenting /label <the-label> (although github org and other permissions apply)
• ping-codeowners-issues: ping codeowners of a component if the label for that component was added to an issue
• ping-codeowners-on-new-issue: search the issue text for components and add labels accordingly, then ping code owners

Part of #11562

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[mowies]

this is on hold until #11756 is merged

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This PR was marked stale due to lack of activity. It will be closed in 14 days.

[mowies]

I will continue working on this after the Christmas break

[github-actions]

This PR was marked stale due to lack of activity. It will be closed in 14 days.

[mowies]

this is on hold until #11756 is merged