http: doc deprecate abort and improve docs

Doc deprecates ClientRequest.abort in favor of
ClientRequest.destroy. Also improves event order
documentation for abort and destroy.

Refs: #32225

doc/api/deprecations.md

@@ -2651,6 +2651,20 @@ written twice. This introduces a race condition between threads, and is a
 potential security vulnerability. There is no safe, cross-platform alternative
 API.
 
+
+<a id="DEPXXX"></a>
+### DEPXXX: Use `request.destroy()` in favor of `request.abort()`
+<!-- YAML
+changes:
+  - version: REPLACEME
+    pr-url: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32807
+    description: Documentation-only deprecation.
+-->
+
+Type: Documentation-only
+
+Use [`request.destroy()`][] in favor of [`request.abort()`][].
+
 [`--pending-deprecation`]: cli.html#cli_pending_deprecation
 [`--throw-deprecation`]: cli.html#cli_throw_deprecation
 [`Buffer.allocUnsafeSlow(size)`]: buffer.html#buffer_class_method_buffer_allocunsafeslow_size
@@ -2712,8 +2726,10 @@ API.
 [`punycode`]: punycode.html
 [`require.extensions`]: modules.html#modules_require_extensions
 [`require.main`]: modules.html#modules_accessing_the_main_module
+[`request.abort()`]: http.html#http_request_abort
 [`request.socket`]: http.html#http_request_socket
 [`request.connection`]: http.html#http_request_connection
+[`request.destroy()`]: http.html#http_request_destroy_err_callback
 [`response.socket`]: http.html#http_response_socket
 [`response.connection`]: http.html#http_response_connection
 [`response.end()`]: http.html#http_response_end_data_encoding_callback

doc/api/http.md

@@ -568,6 +568,7 @@ server.listen(1337, '127.0.0.1', () => {
 ### `request.abort()`
 <!-- YAML
 added: v0.3.8
+deprecated: REPLACEME
 -->
 
 Marks the request as aborting. Calling this will cause remaining data
@@ -2356,8 +2357,44 @@ the following events will be emitted in the following order:
 * `'close'`
 * `'close'` on the `res` object
 
-If `req.abort()` is called before the connection succeeds, the following events
-will be emitted in the following order:
+
+If `req.destroy()` is called before a socket is assigned, the following
+events will be emitted in the following order:
+
+* (`req.destroy()` called here)
+* `'error'` with an error with message `'Error: socket hang up'` and code
+  `'ECONNRESET'`
+* `'close'`
+
+If `req.destroy()` is called before the connection succeeds, the following
+events will be emitted in the following order:
+
+* `'socket'`
+* (`req.destroy()` called here)
+* `'error'` with an error with message `'Error: socket hang up'` and code
+  `'ECONNRESET'`
+* `'close'`
+
+If `req.destroy()` is called after the response is received, the following
+events will be emitted in the following order:
+
+* `'socket'`
+* `'response'`
+  * `'data'` any number of times, on the `res` object
+* (`req.destroy()` called here)
+* `'aborted'` on the `res` object
+* `'close'`
+* `'close'` on the `res` object
+
+If `req.abort()` is called before a socket is assigned, the following
+events will be emitted in the following order:
+
+* (`req.abort()` called here)
+* `'abort'`
+* `'close'`
+
+If `req.abort()` is called before the connection succeeds, the following
+events will be emitted in the following order:
 
 * `'socket'`
 * (`req.abort()` called here)
@@ -2366,8 +2403,8 @@ will be emitted in the following order:
   `'ECONNRESET'`
 * `'close'`
 
-If `req.abort()` is called after the response is received, the following events
-will be emitted in the following order:
+If `req.abort()` is called after the response is received, the following
+events will be emitted in the following order:
 
 * `'socket'`
 * `'response'`