test(DRIVERS-2468): add unified test for ok 1

[durran]

Adds a unified test in command monitoring tests that ensures a command succeeded event is emitted when a reply contains write concern errors and { ok: 1 }. The additional test runs against replica sets, so the first client failure forces a retry of the write so the expected events are command started, command succeeded, command started, command succeeded.

Node implementation passing here: mongodb/node-mongodb-native#3525

Please complete the following before merging:

• Update changelog.
• Make sure there are generated JSON files from the YAML test files.
• Test changes in at least one language driver.
• Test these changes against all server versions and topologies (including standalone, replica set, sharded clusters, and serverless).

[kmahar]

the test looks ok from a quick inspection. let me see tomorrow if I can quickly fix the bug in Rust and see if the test passes there too. I'd like to add an equivalent command logging test