[API Extractor] Add missing required parameter for getResolvedModule to ensure that modules can resolve accurately with Node16/nodenext support

[chrisdholt]

…ypescript can resolve accurately

Summary

With the addition of Node16 and nodenext, Typescript now requires the mode to be passed in order to accurately resolve modules. This PR adds support for mode thanks to the help of @DanielRosenwasser and does so in a way that returns undefined gracefully in case the fn isn't supported in older versions.

This resolves #3433.

Details

1. Add a third param to getResolvedModule for mode
2. Create a new function getModeForUsageLocation which maps to the TS equivalent
3. Update all callers to gracefully look for the right mode and return undefined if necessary

How it was tested

Tested locally with Typescript 4.7.2 and the error is gone, API Extractor succeeds.

[EisenbergEffect]

Woohoo! Let's get this in 😄 This is a critical fix needed for us to ship our FAST vNext packages.

[chrisdholt]

Thanks for the review @DanielRosenwasser - build is passing with updated types! @iclanton, @octogonz, @D4N14L, @apostolisms - Apologies for the ping, but curious if anyone is available to work with us on getting this out the door to unblock our release? Thank you!