[Forwardport] Add UpdatedAtListProvider to NotSyncedDataProvider for invoice grid

[Jeroenll]

Original Pull Request

#16286
Invoice grid isn't updated when state is changed.

Description

Invoice updates aren't updated in a grid. Regarding our use case: We create proforma invoices with their own increment ID (e.g. Concept #1), upon shipment we update update the increment ID to use the normal invoice sequence. These changes aren't picked up by the indexer because the UpdatedAtListProvider isn't used.

Issue should be reproducible using scenarios below.

Fixed Issues (if relevant)

1. None I could find.

Manual testing scenarios

1. Enable async grid indexing.
2. Create order + invoice with state open.
3. Run the sales_grid_order_invoice_async_insert.
4. Invoice is added to grid.
5. Mark invoice paid.
6. Run the sales_grid_order_invoice_async_insert.

Contribution checklist

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• All commits are accompanied by meaningful commit messages
• All new or changed code is covered with unit/integration tests (if applicable)
• All automated tests passed successfully (all builds on Travis CI are green)

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[magento-engcom-team]

Hi @JeroenVanLeusden. Thank you for your contribution.
We will aim to release these changes as part of 2.3.0.
Please check the release notes for final confirmation.