conditionally create load balancers for ecs

[jhsinger-klotho]

• Does any part of it require special attention?
• Does it relate to or fix any issue?

now that topology has the type of expose, we can conditionally create these nlbs and support albs as well

Standard checks

• Unit tests: Any special considerations?
• Docs: Do we need to update any docs, internal or public?
• Backwards compatibility: Will this break existing apps? If so, what would be the extra work required to keep them working?

[github-actions]

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[ghost]

nit, unless this is intentional (in which case I'd ask for a comment):

Suggested change

	if (edge.source == resource.id && edge.target === `${execUnitName}_exec_unit`) {
	if (edge.source === resource.id && edge.target === `${execUnitName}_exec_unit`) {

[ghost]

minor: If you wanted, I think you could just do this as nlb?.listeners ?? [ { containerPort ... } ]