Replace BytesTrieSet with HashSet

[siladu]

Testing as a fix for #9165

This effectively reverts #6069 by wholesale removing BytesTrieSet and going back to using HashSet as was the case with this PR: #5537

I have measured a notable improvement for the self-destruct worst case, but still need to validate the impact on the other operations.

Before:

Considering tests/benchmark/test_worst_stateful_opcodes.py::test_worst_selfdestruct_existing[fork_Prague-benchmark-gas-value_150M-blockchain_test-value_bearing_False]
Block 1 (0x061b71f5da5b5a167abcaf295a378675e0993301fd27423b8606ba63152b9368) Imported in 22282.17 ms (29.27 MGas/s)
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Considering tests/benchmark/test_worst_stateful_opcodes.py::test_worst_selfdestruct_existing[fork_Prague-benchmark-gas-value_150M-blockchain_test-value_bearing_True]
Block 1 (0x791e173cea611051e2abc520d2263214a8105c46b5ba7e439a777e4ad04cb428) Imported in 23517.50 ms (27.73 MGas/s)

With this PR:

Considering tests/benchmark/test_worst_stateful_opcodes.py::test_worst_selfdestruct_existing[fork_Prague-benchmark-gas-value_150M-blockchain_test-value_bearing_False]
Block 1 (0x061b71f5da5b5a167abcaf295a378675e0993301fd27423b8606ba63152b9368) Imported in 9895.61 ms (65.91 MGas/s)
Considering tests/benchmark/test_worst_stateful_opcodes.py::test_worst_selfdestruct_existing[fork_Prague-benchmark-gas-value_150M-blockchain_test-value_bearing_True]
Block 1 (0x791e173cea611051e2abc520d2263214a8105c46b5ba7e439a777e4ad04cb428) Imported in 10208.29 ms (63.89 MGas/s)

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[siladu]

Couldn't reopen this PR after force pushing so replaced with #9641