Fix matter remove config entry device

[MartinHjelmare]

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• Use the correct device identifier pattern to look up the node when removing a device entry for Matter.
• We forgot to update this code when changing the device identifier in the January cycle.
• Use a helper to get the node from the device entry, as we need to do the same in the diagnostics platform.

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[MartinHjelmare]

There's still a bug in the client library, where it doesn't listen for the EventType.NODE_DELETED and update the cached nodes. This will be solved separately.