Add note how to enable eslint-loader with custom config

[jonicious]

Description

This adds a little section in the ESLint config documentation explaining how to enable the eslint-loader again when providing a custom ESLint config.

Related Issues

• Fixes Custom eslint config is not getting picked up #18796
• Relates to Add hint how to disable ESLint #19171

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