Grid: set the sizing_pass flag during the initial sizing pass (#4612

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* Part of #4535

This should improve the auto-sizing of columns when nesting expanding
widgets (e.g. `Separator`), or centered or justified layouts.

crates/egui/src/grid.rs

@@ -426,7 +426,10 @@ impl Grid {
         // which we do here:
         let max_rect = ui.cursor().intersect(ui.max_rect());
         ui.allocate_ui_at_rect(max_rect, |ui| {
-            ui.set_visible(prev_state.is_some()); // Avoid visible first-frame jitter
+            if prev_state.is_none() {
+                // Hide the ui this frame, and make things as narrow as possible.
+                ui.set_sizing_pass();
+            }
             ui.horizontal(|ui| {
                 let is_color = color_picker.is_some();
                 let mut grid = GridLayout {