[9.0](backport #44769) Upgrade go.mongodb.org/mongo-driver from v1.14.0 -> v1.17.4

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Proposed commit message

Upgrade go.mongodb.org/mongo-driver from v1.14.0 -> v1.17.4. v1.14.0 is known to have a connection leak bug. Please read this for more details.

It was indirectly upgraded here: #41014 and 8.16.x and higher stacks are affected by the connection leak when using the mongodb module.

Checklist

• My code follows the style guidelines of this project
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• I have made corresponding change to the default configuration files
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• I have added an entry in CHANGELOG.next.asciidoc or CHANGELOG-developer.next.asciidoc.

Related issues

• Closes Upgrade mongodb driver from 1.14.0 to 1.17.4 #44562

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  This is an automatic backport of pull request Upgrade go.mongodb.org/mongo-driver from v1.14.0 -> v1.17.4 #44769 done by Mergify.

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	modified:   NOTICE.txt

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	both modified:   go.sum

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