docs(readme): add Why OCP, comparison table, governance section

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Summary

README positioning polish to better convert visitor clones into stars. Three additive sections, no content removed, no anchors broken.

1. "Why OCP?" section near the top (after the headline pitch, before "Supported Tools"). Six differentiator bullets with evidence links:

   • SSE heartbeat (v3.12.0, opt-in) → links PR feat(server): SSE heartbeat on streaming path (#47) #49 + release tag
   • ALIGNMENT.md constitution + alignment.yml CI guardrail → links to both files
   • models.json single source of truth (v3.11.0) → links PR refactor(models): extract models.json as single source of truth #30
   • Multi anonymous-key distribution (v3.7.0)
   • Per-key quota + response cache (v3.8.0) → links PR feat: per-key quota + response cache (v3.8.0) #18
   • ocp-connect IDE auto-config

2. "Comparison" subsection — honest table vs claude-code-router and anthropic-proxy. Acknowledges CCR has the larger ecosystem; positions OCP as cli.js-aligned + subscription-multiplexing focused. Plain-English paragraph below the table tells the reader which one to pick. States "single-maintainer + LLM-assisted, currently pre-1.0" honestly.

3. "Governance" section near the bottom (before License) — consolidates links to ALIGNMENT.md, AGENTS.md, alignment.yml workflow, models.json, and the ADR directory. Previously these were scattered or only mentioned inline.

Diff

• 1 file changed, +43 -0
• README.md only; no other repo files touched

Why this PR (vs. shipping each section separately)

All three sections together form a single editorial layer ("repositioning the README to lead with differentiation"). Iron Rule 11's "minimum reviewable unit" treats them as one layer × one severity × one file. Splitting would create three trivial PRs that all need the same review pass.

Tao review checklist (please tick before merge)

• Comparison table tone is honest, not disparaging
• "single-maintainer + LLM-assisted, pre-1.0" framing acceptable (vs. removing it)
• Governance section placement (bottom, before License) feels right vs. somewhere else
• Links resolve (PR feat(server): SSE heartbeat on streaming path (#47) #49, refactor(models): extract models.json as single source of truth #30, feat: per-key quota + response cache (v3.8.0) #18, ALIGNMENT.md, ADR 0002, ADR 0003)

Type

• Documentation only

Claude Code Alignment Evidence

• No cli.js citation required — README only, no server.mjs change.

Reviewer checklist (Iron Rule 10)

• N/A — no server.mjs change
• CI alignment.yml passes (no server.mjs touched, should pass trivially)
• I am not the commit author of any commit in this PR

Privacy self-check (for public repos)

• No real names, nicknames, or handles. References use role-based terms ("the maintainer").
• No literal personal paths.
• No personal machine hostnames.
• No personal email addresses.

User-visible change self-check (铁律第五律 5.3)

• User-visible change → README updated (this is the README change itself)

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