Fix Parquet table import -u to skip missing table columns and match CSV warning behavior

[elianddb]

Fix #10589

• Parquet dolt table import -u no longer fails immediately when the destination table has additional columns missing from the file.
• Missing destination columns now produce the standard schema mismatch warning path for Parquet.

[coffeegoddd]

@elianddb DOLT

comparing_percentages
100.000000 to 100.000000

version	result	total
86a1bd4	ok	5937471

version	total_tests
86a1bd4	5937471

correctness_percentage
100.0

[coffeegoddd]

@elianddb DOLT

test_name	from_latency_p95	to_latency_p95	percent_change
tpcc-scale-factor-1	61.08	61.08	0.0

test_name	from_server_name	from_server_version	from_tps	to_server_name	to_server_version	to_tps	percent_change
tpcc-scale-factor-1	dolt	1912c5a	38.06	dolt	86a1bd4	37.59	-1.23

[jycor]

LGTM