[CUDA] Update CCCL to 2.3.0

[mfbalin]

Description

Update to latest CCCL for best performance. With this release, we don't need to set the DTHRUST_CUB_WRAPPED_NAMESPACE macro anymore. For details, see release notes: https://github.com/NVIDIA/cccl/releases/tag/v2.3.0 (Linkage Issues section) and PR: NVIDIA/cccl#443

CCCL release notes say: "As of the 2.3 release, linkage issues are addressed by default without the need for THRUST_CUB_WRAPPED_NAMESPACE."

Let's land this PR for DGL 2.1.

One concern was that lintrunner and the other linter for the CPP sources in the CI disagree about the placement of the cub include. That is why I had to place // NO_LINT comments in 4 of the files.

Checklist

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• To the best of my knowledge, examples are either not affected by this change, or have been fixed to be compatible with this change
• Related issue is referred in this PR
• If the PR is for a new model/paper, I've updated the example index here.

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