Rework record/replay to record at the database connection level.

[peterallenwebb]

Problem

Our previous approach to recording DWH interaction short-circuited a large amount of our own code upon replay. This caused problems with replay behavior, and was also conceptually difficult to reason about.

Solution

Record and replay at a different level of abstraction, cleanly separating dbt code from 3rd party code.

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