chore: backport tweak compact strategy to 636-rc8.1

[dantengsky]

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Summary

backport

• chore(storage): do compact before recluster during compact hook #16949
• chore(storage): hook compact avoid scan all segments #16954

to release/v1.2.636-rc8.1

Tests

• Unit Test
• Logic Test
• Benchmark Test
• No Test - backports, use existing tests

Type of change

• Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• Documentation Update
• Refactoring
• Performance Improvement
• Other (please describe): backports, use existing tests

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