Upgrade to CUDA 13.0

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Here are some more details about this specific migrator:

CUDA 13.0 requires architecture sm_75 or higher, and renamed sm_101 to
sm_110. To build for these, maintainers will need to modify their existing list of
specified architectures (e.g. CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES, TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST, etc.)
for their package.

Since CUDA 12.8, the conda-forge nvcc package now sets CUDAARCHS and
in its activation script to a string containing all
of the supported real architectures plus the virtual architecture of the
latest. Recipes for packages who use these variables to control their build
but do not want to build for all supported architectures will need to override
these variables in their build script.

ref: https://docs.nvidia.com/cuda/cuda-toolkit-release-notes/index.html#new-features

[[!IMPORTANT]]
Remember to update any CUDA 11/12 specific selector syntax in the recipe to include
CUDA 13. For example # [(cuda_compiler_version or "None").startswith("12")]
might be replaced with # [cuda_compiler_version != "None"].

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