chore: bump node to v18.14.0 (main) (electron#37129)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.14.0

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

nodejs/node#44376

* test: fix test broken under --node-builtin-modules-path

nodejs/node#45894

* build: add option to disable shared readonly heap

nodejs/node#45887

* src: remove unnecessary semicolons

nodejs/node#46171

* src: remove return after abort

nodejs/node#46172

* chore: fixup patch indices

* test_runner: parse yaml

nodejs/node#45815

* src: use simdutf for converting externalized builtins to UTF-16

nodejs/node#46119

* src: rename internal module declaration as internal bindings

nodejs/node#45551

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