Upgrade from Chromium 80.0.3987.149 to Chromium 81.0.4044.69.

[mkarolin]

Fixes brave/brave-browser#8308
Related PR: brave/brave-browser#8309

Fixes brave/brave-browser#8342

Note: does NOT build on Android!

Submitter Checklist:

• Submitted a ticket for my issue if one did not already exist.
• Used Github auto-closing keywords in the commit message.
• Added/updated tests for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Verified that these changes build without errors on
  • Android
  • iOS
  • Linux
  • macOS
  • Windows
• Verified that these changes pass automated tests (unit, browser, security tests) on
  • iOS
  • Linux
  • macOS
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• Verified that all lint errors/warnings are resolved (npm run lint)
• Ran git rebase master (if needed).
• Ran git rebase -i to squash commits (if needed).
• Tagged reviewers and labelled the pull request as needed.
• Request a security/privacy review as needed.
• Add appropriate QA labels (QA/Yes or QA/No) to include the closed issue in milestone
• Public documentation has been updated as necessary. For instance:
  • https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/wiki/Deviations-from-Chromium-(features-we-disable-or-remove)
  • https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/wiki/Proxy-redirected-URLs
  • https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/wiki/Fingerprinting-Protection-Mode
  • https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/wiki/Brave%E2%80%99s-Use-of-Referral-Codes
  • https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/wiki/Custom-Headers
  • https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/wiki/Web-compatibility-issues-with-tracking-protection
  • https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/wiki/QA-Guide

Test Plan:

See brave/brave-browser#8308

Reviewer Checklist:

• New files have MPL-2.0 license header.
• Request a security/privacy review as needed.
• Adequate test coverage exists to prevent regressions
• Verify test plan is specified in PR before merging to source

After-merge Checklist:

• The associated issue milestone is set to the smallest version that the
  changes has landed on.
• All relevant documentation has been updated.

[bsclifton]

Note: if uplifting, we'll want to include #5018 also (crash fix)

[bsclifton]

Also needed if we uplift: #5074 (fix for popping up clear browser data dialog)

[mkarolin]

Also needed if we uplift: brave/brave-browser#8878 (Chromium bump to .83)

[mkarolin]

Also needed if we uplift: brave/brave-browser#8893 (cr81 l10n).

[bsclifton]

Also needed for uplift to 1.7.x:
brave/brave-browser#9000
#5150